Thank you for sharing. It sounds like you are having a tough time. Let us know if we need to google whatsapp support webpage for you, so you can see what THEY say about your issues.
You have shared on CCM.NET, and frankly, you have not asked for help, but only shared in your heartbreak. Please understand, if you are having issues with the software, it is best to make the software company aware of it. BTW, the same company that ignores about your facebook verification codes owns whatsapp, so be prepared to get the same customer service! NONE!