Ipod not recogonized on Itunes [Closed]


Did the latest update on Itunes...now Ipod icon doesn't show up in Itunes. I do get a message on ipod stating:

"Allow this device to access photos and Videos? This device will be able to access photes and videos while it is connected to your ipod"

I hate updates! Last time I lost all my playlists with the update. Now my ipod isn't recognized...can anyone help this girl?