Find me a server in just simple easy way ..

Hello,
am from pakistan
i dont know how to say it but the ptcl guys kept me waiting for almost One week now and hvent yet confirmed my id password etc ..figuring i dont hve to wait my whole life for it , i tried to connect to other servers but some kept kicking me coz i had a high ping rate ,some didnt just liked me i guesss, which was all my fault i guess ..shouldnt be playing games ..
where can i find a server safe ..and just for Once could just play a game on line with real users ..plz
can u understand my frustration ...