Nero

Hello,
you helped me a while back about sims 3 and i was just wondering if you could help again :)

i have movies on my computer which i wont to put on a dvd-r disc so i can watch them on my dvd player. i have nero both 6&9.
the movies are mpeg-4 but then i converted them to dvd-pal files cause nero requires that now they are in dvd-pal files. i've also got them in mpeg4, mpeg and dvd-pal.
i now have tried to burn the files but its coming up with the movie is larger than 2GB and thereore cannot be stored in an ISO file system.please use the UDF file system to write such large files. this can be done by selecting another compilation type.
so what the hell does that mean???
please help me with this or even advise me to download another program which i can burn these movie to
how can i burn these files to a dvd-r disc?

one movie is 4,611,850KB in dvd movie AKA 4.39GB
806MB in MPEG-4 media file
986 MPEG

another is 3,980,668KB in dvd movie aka 3.79GB
297MB in MPEG-4 media file
851MB in MPEG

(I have all these in different types so however i can od i will)

so please help me
thank you very very much

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