Trying to reset my password, to an account that i use very little,

I have had this account for 20 + years and now i cant get in it, i have gotten the code to reset and jumped threw hoop after hoop, did all the list of e-mail accounts that i can remember, and some subject lines, which i seldom use a subject.
and they cant allow me in, saying that with info i have entered, they cant prove its my account,
If i didn't need some e-mails and a lot of pictures on this account, i'd tell them to shove it.
But I need it.

What can I do?????

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