Stir Crazy downloading to Ipod touch

I originally started out with downloading itunes to my computer and with that quictime music and apple mobile device support was downloaded. With that it only selected a few songs from my music and not any of the ones that i actually liked. I found a sight on google about MGTEK which allows you to sync music without going through itunes, but it says it can't read apple moble deice support and quicktime and recommend that i redownload itunes. So i uninstalled, reinstalled and repaired these three several time hoping for a different result and still the same result has come up. so then i found copytrans control and this too doesn't help me transfer or sync music from windows media player. copytrns i found made i easy to pick what music i wanted on the ipod touch but that's about it. I am looking to take my music from windows media player through a second party to download it to itune. I haven't found a way to do it in itunes and from what i read the sites aren't compatible to download and sync together.